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Advice From an Experienced Bottom (Mostly) Actor in Porn
I have had a number of guys ask me various questions about being a bottom, from HIV transmission to what it takes to getting a good load out and how to do a proper cleaning before a decent fucking. I am going to cover some of the questions I have been asked, at least that I can answer first-hand, or through some experienced friends. Some, I will give advice as to what works for me, but be advised, each person’s system works a bit different.

QUESTION


Hey Stud! Quick question,and maybe this can be something for your site as well: My Daddy (yes,my playmate is now my Daddy, but still has not owned me yet) has recently told me he is wanting to try doing a homemade porno. What would you suggest to those who want to try doing a project like that?

ANSWER


Definitely something for the website. As a quick suggestion, pick a fantasy situation and act it out. Either have a third party handle the camera or, as I did in one video, have a "static" camera and another you pass back and forth to get some different angles. For the latter, you would need to use some editing software to piece it together. Amateur (aka Home-Made) porn is really catching on. Good luck and thanks for the idea for the site!

QUESTION


I am now on Truvada daily as an anti-HIV preventative. Would love to have at least 8-10 loads in my hole and then some big dick guy churn the "butter" up and all that cum slops out of my hole and all over his dick. Been experimenting with double-dicked too, but I need lots of lube and lots of poppers. How do I prepare easier for this?

ANSWER


Even though it states it is a preventative, it is not an all out magical thing. I am just saying. I am poz and I do not condone bug chasing at all! Just be careful. As for the double fucking, after the first couple times it gets quite easy (at least for me!). Try stretching yourself out with a good sized dildo first for a while. Do not worry, you will still be tight enough. I myself am able to control three different muscle groups inside my ass. That took some training to do. Mostly by learning to recognize my different muscles inside there and being able to move them when I want to. It is great to do it to a big dicked top as I am sitting on his cock and I am in full control. It tends to drive them wild! Also, another little trick we Power Bottoms have learned over the years, once you have been stretched, either by dildo and/or fucking, use some Preparation H Gel, the clear stuff, around and in your hole for quick, clean, pain relief and healing. It's a miracle worker for bottoms. Now you have one of our secrets. By the way, I do love getting double-fucked.

QUESTION


I tried getting fucked last night and despite "mild" attempts to loosen up, I didn't last for long. I have more of a problem relaxing my ass. Any suggestions?

ANSWER


Ouch! I can see how that would be a problem. In that case, you would have to practice with toys a lot and probably use a buttplug quite a bit to help "loosen" your hole more. I have learned to control the muscles in my ass, 3 different groups, through Kegel exercises similar to the ones that women do. There are also some Yoga techniques to help out with make you a better bottom. You can find both of these techniques on my "Vital Facts and Useful Information" page. You can also try some of the novocaine laced lubes that are supposed to help numb your hole to help with the entry. They are available even on Amazon.

QUESTION


What was your first time like?

ANSWER


Very rough. I was in the military and it was one of my fellow soldiers. He had a nice, long cock (longer than mine) with an upward curve. He fucked me bare on the hood of my car, under a water tower, with only spit for lube. Hurt like hell too! He was a real horn dog so taking it easy was not in his vocabulary. He was bi-sexual and always looking to fuck anyone as often as possible. He and I played a few times. Usually after he had quite a few beers though. I remember once, when we went camping, he actually let me fuck him too. Most of the time though, he either fucked me or I sucked him off. Not that I complained!

QUESTION


I am allergic to latex so I end up doing bareback a lot. Is this a problem?

ANSWER


They do make other types of condoms besides latex, for those that are latex sensitive. I am not too hip on them myself either, but when I film safe videos I have to comply.

QUESTION


How do prepare for an orgy where you are going to be a bottom?

ANSWER


I myself, I abstain 3 days prior to the shoot to save up for the big money shot (Yeah I know, it sucks and not in a good way, but the boss demands it). Starting 2 days out I start my cleaning out process. Shower shot twice a day (more if needed). The only thing I eat is liquid protein drinks. The one I usually get is either Odwalla or the Naked variety plain, vanilla, protein drinks. That and water, maybe some white bread but not much. Helps to keep the pipes cleaned out. The morning of the shoot I take 2 Imodium multi-symptom caplets (covers the shits and the gas) and do another clean out. Then apply Preparation H gel to help restore the asshole to "like new" appearance. LOL It's tasteless, odorless, etc. so you can wipe it off when you get to the shooting location. After the 3 days of abstaining you should have a good sized load built up. I try to avoid the leafy greens since they do not digest as well and tend to taint your cum's taste.

QUESTION


I read that you use Preparation H to help getting over being fucked hard. What about when you want to suck the tops dick, after he shoots his sperm up inside you? Is it safe?

ANSWER


This one is easy. The Preparation H is just a witch hazel solution diluted in a clear, odorless, tasteless gel that will not hurt you. A lot of times, I try to only use the Preparation H AFTER the intense fucking and you only use a small amount. Mind you there have been times that I have been fucked while I still had it on my hole, but again it was in small amounts. Plus, by the time the top is done fucking you and cumming, your ass juices and the cum will have diluted it even further so that you will not even notice it there. It will have no effect on you or your mouth whatsoever. As you can tell, I always try to clean up after the top is done with me as well too.

QUESTION


I just got a new car and was contemplating if I could fuck someone in the back of it. Seems likely since it is a hatchback and the seats fold flat. A friend will be pleased to hear this! Also, I read up on your Help for the Virgin Bottom and am confused on not eating for the day or lightly eating. You say to not eat for 12 hours at least but then you say not eating at all really does not help unless you do an all night fuck fest. Do not you get weak with no food in your system?

ANSWER


I have been fucked/have fucked a few times in the back of a hatchback. It is a bit tricky, but it can be done. Heck, there is not too many places that I have not found that I could not find to have sex. !-) You know the old saying, "Where there is a will, there is a way!" My buddy that I am traveling with is already planning on fucking me every 100 miles, filming it of course, and we are calling it "The 100 Mile CUMDUMP." I have seen him in action and he has the stamina to do it!

As for the not eating for 12-24 hours, what I usually do is consume a liquid protein drink in place of regular food. Adwalla makes a great vanilla protein drink that I use for 2-3 days prior to a video shoot to ensure that my system is clean and to make sure that I am getting nourishment. I do loose a few pounds over those few days, but it usually is nothing that to worry about. I will drink about one of them every 4-5 hours or so until I am done with the shoot or playing. You will be surprised how much it can hold you over, unless you are a REALLY big guy used to eating a lot.

QUESTION


How do you get used to doing the anal douching? Also how can I do a thorough cleaning for a whole night of sex?

ANSWER


Practice, practice, practice. I have done it for so many years, I know exactly what mood my gut is in. I clean nominally for fucking almost everyday, and if you are into extended sessions, say more than 12 hours, you may have to take a break and do a touch up. You need to know how your body reacts to what you eat. Somethings are digested quickly, some are not. I have found that eating lightly on play days is helpful, but not eating at all really does not help unless your going for a full day/night fuck-fest.

Here is my routine. I have an 18" rubber nozzle (Fort Troff makes a nice one) that goes all the way up for two rounds. I will let water in, progressively letting more go in further each time. The long nozzle is very helpful for me to get the 2nd ring opened so it is not preventing things from coming out. Water temp is important too. Luke warm is best for most. Too hot or too cold and your ass may not cooperate. After I have done a round standing up with the 18" nozzle, I will kneel or lay down in the tub, relax and douche some more with the 18". It is important to relax your gut while your cleaning just as it is while you are being fucked or fisted. When you have gotten most of the chunky, dark stuff out, you are at the end of round one. Give it a few minutes, like 15-20. You will probably shit out what seems like a gallon or so of water. When that is done and your gut is comfy again, you are ready for round two. Round two is similar to round one, but should not take nearly as long. It depends. If you are still getting a lot of chucks, you need to keep going until that is just water. Towards the end of this, turn the water pressure down and try pushing some water up your butt, taking the hose out and holding it. Then add more water and hold it. Maybe 3 times or so. As your gut relaxes, it will let the water flow up gently to the upper areas. Then let it out. You may want to rub your gut gently, but firmly in a clockwise rotation starting near the belly button and to the right, keep pressure on up an go just under your rib cage and then down the other side. that is the path of your large intestine and you can help it expel the water. When you have done this a few times and the water is coming out clear, round two is over.

Now, take a break. Watch TV, sit at the computer, whatever, but give your ass 30 minutes or so to settle down. You may have to hit the can a few times, but this is normal. By now you should just be seeing mostly liquid. When your gut has calmed down, you are ready for round 3. Water pressure should not be hard for this. This should be the final clean out. Just gently let the water in as far as it wants to go and let it out. Repeat (as the shampoo bottle says). When the water is clean, you "should" be done and ready to go for several hours. I often find that after a good clean out like this, I will still get on the toilet and see stuff coming out my butt. With a good clean out, though, it is pure white. It is what I call ass cum. It is the intestinal lubricant your ass makes naturally to make it easier for the shit to come out. Only now, it is the best sex lube known to man kind. I have been fucked with just it before. Good luck. This works for me. I have tried MANY other methods. There are lots of other tips and tricks. Just remember making cleaning out like foreplay. Enjoy it too. Some guys even use poppers when they clean out or long thin dildos. I have a long double-headed dildo that I can take almost all the way in by this point if I am properly cleaned out. If you are enjoying your clean out, your ass will open up and cooperate.

QUESTION


If I wanted to get into fisting, is there a different regime I should take for a night of that?

ANSWER


This is advice I got from a fisting aficionado friend of mine. Seems a bit extreme, but having been on the receiving end of fisting, I can see why it is necessary!

For a long session, if a guy is going to be fisted but not deprived of bodily function, I have him do a total natural cleaning ahead of time to be certain he is clean for a long, long session. The day before, about 2 pm, drink 3/4 glass water with 2 tablespoons epsom salt. Repeat at 4 pm. Do not force or put presser when releasing your bowels! let what comes out come out, but do not force it. Before going to bed, or by 10 pm latest, take 1 cup olive oil mixed with juice of one grapefruit and juice of half a lemon and drink it all. It will taste like salad dressing. Go to bed and try to sleep. Be still and let it work.

At 6 am the next day, drink 3/4 glass water with 2 tablespoons epsom salt. At 8 am drink another and final glass of water with 2 tablespoons epsom salt. After the oil mixture goes through you, you will see pea size shapes as you blow your bowels. Those are stones from your liver and some from your kidneys. You will have cleaned out your body filter. After your final burst from the final epsom salts, about an hour and a half to two hours after drinking it, when you have cleaned out, now douche. Take an enema. The bigger the better and clean out anything that remains. Do a thorough cleaning.

You are now good to go for several days of cage in pig fisting and your body is healthier for it too!

{Word of caution: This can be a bit harsh for some people}

QUESTION


I never waste any guys sperm. Been a cumpig since I was 16. Any advice on for me to ask my doc about the Truvada medication? Do you have to be poz to get this? I do get fucked by other poz guys.

ANSWER


I am not an expert on this medicine, since I have never taken it, but I did consult their website (http://www.truvada.com). According to it, you do not have to be HIV poz; it is used both ways. It is use to treat those that are already infected and to help prevent guys from getting infected. Therefore, I suggest you might want to talk to your doctor anyways and address it to him/her in a way that "just in case something happens" sort of scenario. Hopefully you have a gay-friendly/understanding doctor.

QUESTION


I do fuck and love to bottom. What are your pointers on drinking the guys piss ? I drink a lot of guys piss when I am cruising the parks. Some are really great, while are really stout. I force myself to drink it.

ANSWER


I went to a couple watersports sites I am on and reviewed what others had to say about what affects the taste of piss and this is the list that I came up with:

As others have said, the smell and taste of piss is heavenly! The getting it is the main thing. As to food and drink affecting the taste, here are some suggestions, from a variety of sources:

  1. Drinking lots and lots of water will produce a thin tasteless piss (surprise).
  2. Fruit juices (particularly orange or cranberry) produce sharp acidic piss.
  3. Tea and coffee tend to produce a very salty, strong piss.
  4. Beer piss tastes like drinking warm dish water.
  5. Straight alcohol can produce a sweet piss.
  6. Medicines can sometimes produce bitter piss or even unpleasant piss, especially antibiotics. Beware of transferring the medication through the piss.
  7. High juice, fizzy pop, sugary or spirits with mixers give a sweet tasting piss.
  8. Men who regularly smoke usually have unpleasantly bitter piss and cum.
  9. Piss from milk doesn't taste that great.
  10. Lemonade clears it up and runs through you faster than water.
  11. Energy drinks make the piss taste like metal.
  12. Best piss is the piss from a man who has not had meat or strong green veggies like asparagus within several hours or a day best.
  13. Drinking diet soda makes piss real sweet (It’s the artificial sweeteners).
  14. After a gym workout, piss is VERY bitter and sour.

"Piss Lite" is what you are after. As a side benefit, if you can get in the habit of drinking lots of water regularly, you might also notice your skin getting clearer and younger looking, and generally-improved health. You might even notice the whites of your eyes getting whiter! And your waist will not expand either (which I am not sure proponents of beer as a piss clarifier can say). All of which will make you look and feel better, which can only improve your sex life. The stronger yellow has more salt in it and is an indication (medically) that you have not been drinking enough water. I have been told it may tax the organs a bit (true I do not know for sure) but I know others who have been doing it for long time with no bad effects. According to all the medical people I have asked, piss is sterile when it leaves the body, so drinking from the tap cannot be so bad.

QUESTION


Are there any supplements I can take to increase the volume of my ejaculate?

ANSWER

I got this from a number of blogs I found on-line. You can increase the amount of semen you ejaculate quite easily with a nutrient you can get at any drug store or health food store. It is called Lecithin, or Soya Lecithin (same thing). It is sold as a supplement that improves your nerve health. It is not a drug, but an extract from soybeans. It comes in big 1200 mg soft-gel capsules and only costs about 8 bucks ( give or take), for 100 of them. Most health sites also recommended supplementing this with Zinc (about 50mg), L-lysine (about 1000mg), and L-arginine (about 500mg) to help with the loads and the orgasms.

Do not take them all the time, rather, start the day before you know you are going to have sex. You pretty much have to mega-dose them, that is, take 4 capsules about 4 times a day. After only 2 days, with some guys, they ejaculated almost twice as much as without them. Plus, their semen was whiter and thicker, and their partners said it tastes milder and sweeter. They like to do this for the visual effect, plus their partners really enjoy swallowing their semen and the more there is, the more their partners like it. This is something to be done only for about 3 days maximum and then give yourself a few days to let your system balance itself back out. This is a case where too much can be TOO MUCH!

QUESTION


Are there any foods or drinks that affect the flavor of my ejaculate?

ANSWER


Other than the above mentioned supplements and the listings from what affects "Piss Flavor," these four other tips apply to what can affect sperm flavor. These lists are not all inclusive and, as I find more items of interest, I will add them and post an update.

  1. Cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemon are particularly recommended for making semen taste sweeter as well.
  2. Avoid junk food, as it is loaded with chemicals and preservatives that pollute your body and your semen's taste. Consider taking a zinc and selenium supplement, as both are needed for healthy sperm and can make the taste better.
  3. Strong-smelling semen may indicate an infection, so if your semen taste does not change when you change your diet, you should consider a visit to the doctor.
  4. Keep in mind the following when considering sperm taste; What you put into your body takes between 12 and 24 hours to secrete. Keep this in mind before eating and deciding whether you want a better sperm taste on that particular day or not!

QUESTION


Why does it feel like I am about to go to the bathroom when he is inside me? I always stop him and it ruins the moment.

ANSWER


He is (the top) and is probably hitting near or on your bladder, which will increase that feeling that you need to pee. It happens to me quite a bit too and I am a porn star bottom! If you have already taken care of pissing beforehand, just have a towel handy and let what little may trickle out happen. However, if you are a fan of, or interested in getting into watersports, why not combine the fun and let it flow while he fucks you. It can be very hot too!

QUESTION


. I am trying to get back in to bottoming and I have been running into the same issue. I have not bottomed yet so I cannot say for sure. But what has been a big help is using a dildo for stretching. I put the dildo in me while I am lying on my back. After I get comfortable, I keep the dildo in, stand up, and walk around a bit. Sometimes, removing the dildo will pull out extra waste I was not able to get douching. When no waste pulls out, I know I can comfortably bottom.

ANSWER


Check out on this website, throughout this page, for some great advice on cleaning out and preparing to bottom all night. Free site, no ads!

QUESTION


This guy is fucking me and he is super into gaping holes. He wants me to show up next time already gaping. How do I achieve this without fisting or causing long term damage?

ANSWER


I would get a nice sized butt plug and not remove it until just before you meet up with him. There are a lot of great ones out there that you can wear discretely under clothes and are not uncomfortable. Also, as for permanent damage, your anus will stretch and return to normal size quite easily. If you want a little extra help with that, use Preparation H Gel. It is great for shrinking the hole.

QUESTION


You are doing fantastic porn productions I see. That would be great to act in one (or much more) of them. Are there some advice about older bears who prefer to do only bareback?

ANSWER


Have you applied to any studios yet? I give great advice on this website, on the "Want 2 Be" page, on how to get into the business. Free Site!

QUESTION


When I watched your sex movies, and others, I was wondering about the long fucking and how could be that possible. For me when I do intercourse, I prefer to be the top, but that depends on my partner in bed. But anyhow, I last between 5 to 10 minutes! Are there any pills or anything I can do to make it last longer?
And my second question, online and websites they say that cock pump / enlargement will make it bigger with time. Is that true or just marketing?
Thanks Lobo. I hope I was not rude with my questions, but we chatted before, and I keep up with your blog, so I thought an advice from a master better than 1000 websites

ANSWER


As for your questions: The best way to make yourself last longer is to practice "edging." Basically, you jerk-off up until you feel yourself getting too close to shooting, then you back off and wait for the feeling to die down. Do this for 15 minute intervals (15 minutes the first couple times, then 30 minutes for the next couple times, etc.). This will help you control your orgasms. As a bottom, the longest I went was a 6 hour non-stop and a 30 hour stop and go. That takes a bit of practice too.

As for the second question, pumps will enlarge the blood vessels so that your cock looks bigger until they resume regular size. Most guys I know that pump, pump it up as big as they can and then use a cock ring to keep that way for a while. You will have to be careful that you do not overdo it and damage the vessels. It can take years of gradually building up before it stays pretty much huge. Mind you, it generally only works for width more than length.

I hope this answers your questions. Please feel free to ask me anything.

QUESTION


Where online would I go to apply to be a model?

ANSWER


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